
Learning from Alexis Skyy: How to Navigate Judgment and Stay Committed to Your Faith
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Ever felt the pressure of trying to live up to others' expectations after making a commitment to your faith? You're not alone. Habits don’t change overnight, but with prayer, Scripture, and the right community, growth is always within reach.
Just like Alexis, many of us face judgment and criticism when we commit to walking with God, whether from others or even ourselves. Recently, Alexis has been in the news after a falling out with her former best friend and business partner, Ikey. Their feud, now very public, unfolded across social media with Ikey spilling personal details about Alexis’ life, including how she brought two people to attack him at his home. Alexis, who’s been open about her spiritual journey and commitment to God, now finds herself under public scrutiny, yet again, for her personal life choices.
When we make the decision to give our lives to Christ, it’s often the beginning of an exciting yet challenging journey. While the spiritual rewards are profound, the path to becoming the person God intends you to be is not always straightforward. What makes it even more difficult is the weight of expectation from others, both inside and outside the faith community. The truth is, habits and behaviors that we’ve built over years don’t disappear overnight. They require time, commitment, and, most importantly, grace.
Take Alexis Skyy, for example. After publicly committing to her spiritual journey, she faced an intense amount of scrutiny—especially as someone with a large social media following. People often forget that personal growth, particularly spiritual growth, doesn’t happen in a vacuum. It’s easy for others to criticize when they don’t understand the depth of what someone is experiencing internally.
This weight of expectation is something many new Christians face. The moment you declare your faith, it can feel like you’re under a magnifying glass. Every decision you make, every mistake, and every moment of weakness can become a point of judgment for others. But what’s important to remember is that this walk is your journey with God. It’s not for others to dictate or define.
The Struggle of Breaking Old Habits
Habits aren’t broken in a single day, a single prayer, or even a single month. The process of becoming a new creation in Christ is ongoing, and it requires patience with yourself. You might slip up, and that’s okay. Even Alexis Skyy has openly shared her struggles with maintaining her spiritual walk amid outside pressures and criticisms. It’s not easy, but it’s possible when you rely on God’s strength, not your own.
Here are three things you can do to stay on course when you feel overwhelmed or lost:
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Pray Daily
Prayer is our direct line to God. It’s where we find comfort, strength, and guidance when we feel weak. Just like any relationship, the more you communicate with God, the stronger your bond will be. You don’t have to be perfect in your prayers—just honest. Let God know your fears, your doubts, and your hopes. -
Study Scripture
The Bible is God’s manual for life. When you spend time in His word, you begin to see your life and your struggles through a new lens. You gain wisdom, and more importantly, you learn how to apply it to your everyday challenges. Scripture reminds us that our transformation is a process: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind” (Romans 12:2). Renewing your mind is a daily commitment. -
Surround Yourself with a Supportive Community
Just like Alexis has faced harsh criticism, so might you. But community can be a sanctuary. Being surrounded by people who understand and encourage your journey makes all the difference. As the Bible says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). The right people will lift you up when you fall, help you stay accountable, and remind you that setbacks don’t define you.
Show Yourself Compassion
The truth is, you will stumble. You may even backslide into old habits. But what matters is what you do next. Show yourself compassion, just as God shows you. When you fall, repent, pick yourself back up, and strive to do better the next day. Each choice of obedience aligns you closer to God’s will. Remember, even the disciples struggled at times, but they kept following Jesus, and you can too.
One of the common reasons people fall back into old habits is because they try to make too many changes at once. It can feel overwhelming and unsustainable. This is why most people don’t achieve their New Year’s resolutions—only 9-12% of people are successful in sticking to their resolutions throughout the year. When you set unrealistic expectations or attempt to change too much too quickly, the weight of it can make you retreat back to what’s comfortable. Instead, focus on small, manageable steps toward your goals. The same applies to your spiritual walk. Take things one day at a time. Lean on God’s strength, and remember that each small act of faith is a step in the right direction.
Embrace the Process
Giving your life to Christ isn’t a one-time event—it’s a lifelong journey. Don’t let the expectations of others derail your faith. Surround yourself with those who understand and support you, stay connected to God through prayer, and be kind to yourself when you fall short. Transformation doesn’t happen overnight, but every step you take in obedience brings you closer to who God created you to be.
At Candid Soul Co., we believe in the power of community to help you grow in your faith. Whether you’re a busy parent, a young professional, or someone deeply committed to your personal and spiritual development, we’re here to walk alongside you. Remember, progress is progress, no matter how small it seems.
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